COME BACK TO LOVE Retreat

Life changing skills to navigate misunderstandings and hurts.

Do you long to feel seen, heard and appreciated in relationships?
Are you tired of misunderstandings that occur with those you love?
Do you avoid discussing the big stuff to keep the peace?
Do you wish you could resolve relationship issues quickly?

I feel you! After spending 12 years supporting people from all walks of life to transform their personal conflicts in businesses, communities and schools throughout Australia, there are a few things I’ve learnt and …

#1 We inherit the way we communicate
Our communication style was formed when we were young, in a family that dealt with conflict in one of 3 ways: FIGHT – yelling it out, FLIGHT – walking away , or FREEZE – pretending nothing is wrong. Each of these childhood responses is reactive and often just lead us to say or do things we regret, making matters worse.

#2 What we don’t say grows resentment
Most of us fear that if we talk about what’s upsetting us things will just get worse , so we shy away from talking about the ‘big stuff’. This constant need to compromise leads us to ongoing resentment and disappointment. We shut down.

#3 The longer it goes on the worse it gets
When misunderstanding arises we pull away, and blame them. They do the same. What we say and do in these times often creates more hurt and erodes trust between us. The longer that the situation goes on, the more trust is lost and we also begin to lose hope. It literally feels like love dies.

The good news is… we can learn to:
Respond to others with clarity and compassion
Express our needs so we are understood
Repair hurt and regrow trust

In my work with corporations, groups, individuals & couples all over the world I’ve discovered that ANYONE can learn clear, compassionate communication to transform conflict.

On COME BACK TO LOVE Retreat you will work directly situations that are most difficult for you and practice tools to grow understanding with those you cherish most.
Over 3 days and 3 nights you will be guided through a profound program of skills development that combines facilitated group conversations, rituals of playful connection, twice-daily yoga & meditation practices and personal reflection. You’ll share this process with other courageous people in the idyllic location of Naravi in Margaret River, Western Australia.

Who is this for?
Singles who want the skills to thrive in future relationships
Couples who want to move beyond misunderstandings to deeper understanding & intimacy

What’s included?
6 x yoga asana practices to grow your capacity to experience love
7 x relationship communication masterclasses
9 x delicious vegetarian meals prepared on site
Rituals of story, celebration and connection
Shared accommodation in the stunning Naravi main house space
Personal coaching to integrate the transformative practices into your life

** Note: No previous yoga experience is required. Both couples and singles are welcome. Two singles will share a room. Only 6 tickets available at the Early Bird Price. Book early to avoid missing out.

Who is the facilitator?
James ‘Fish’ Gill is an Australian transformational facilitator, heart coach and yoga teacher. His experiential programs have transformed complex interpersonal challenges in communities, governments, corporations and schools since 2007. As a consultant Fish has presented nationally and internationally on empowering communities in the face of conflict, challenge and change. His warm, compassionate facilitation style draws on his experiences as a passionate educator, actor, loving father of two young adults, and open-hearted, fallible human. Since completing his 350-hour yoga teacher training in the ISHTA lineage through Tamara Yoga in Perth, WA in 2017, he has taught at yoga studios in Perth, Indonesia and Sri Lanka

What others say:
“Fish radiates warmth and kindness in the most authentic and relatable way. He makes everyone feel as though they belong even in the face of discomfort. He worked with me to transform anxieties, and resistance to love. He selflessly brings joy to others.” ~ Tamar Zalk, Istanbul
“This work has been profound. The tools you have given me have changed the way I experience the world. I would never have thought it possible to move beyond crippling anxiety, fear and self doubt. I cannot thank you enough.” ~ G.T, Perth